Authenticity in Old Settings
As I reflect on this holiday season, I find myself in a place of introspection.
You know, it's funny how we can be surrounded by loved ones and still feel a sense of disconnection. I found myself engaging in surface-level conversations when what I really craved were deep, meaningful check-ins.
It's like there's this invisible barrier between the person I've become and the person my family and friends remember me as.
I've been on this incredible journey of healing and self-discovery. There have been moments of profound realization, times when I've looked at parts of myself that were once wounded and recognized the need for healing.
I've been seeing healers, having sessions, and feeling the benefits in ways that are hard to put into words. But how do you explain that to someone over turkey dinner?
It's challenging, isn't it? We want to share these transformative experiences, but we hesitate. Will they understand? Will they think I've gone off the deep end? Even the terminology feels like a setback sometimes. If I start talking about healing wounded aspects of myself, I can almost see the confusion in their eyes.
It's not that they don't care; it's just that unless you're immersed in this world of self-healing, it can sound like a foreign language.
As humans, we have this deep-seated need to be seen and understood. We long to find others who can relate to our experiences.
But during the holidays, I found myself in a unique position. I'm still authentically me, but I've evolved. Those not on this path of self-discovery are often preoccupied with day-to-day dramas that, honestly, don't hold the same weight for me anymore.
It's not about trying to change them or push my journey onto others. I've realized that until they start noticing the shifts in me and asking questions, it's not my place to tell them how to live.
And you know what? That's okay. When they're ready, they'll ask, and I'll be here, happy to answer and share my own journey with them.
What I did notice was fascinating. People seemed more open to sharing with me, as if they sensed that I "got them" on a deeper level. It's almost like I'm observing the old way of doing things through a new lens, finding that delicate balance between the new me and the familiar holiday traditions.
Did you experience something similar? Did you find yourself fully present in the holiday events, yet also aware of how much you've grown?
It's an interesting feeling, isn't it? To be physically there, participating in the familiar routines, but with a new perspective that allows you to see beyond the surface and connect more authentically, even if others don't fully understand your journey yet.
This experience has made me realize how much I've changed and grown. It's also shown me the importance of finding ways to bridge the gap between my inner growth and my external relationships.
As I continue on this path of self-discovery and healing, I'm learning that it's not just about personal transformation. It's also about navigating how that transformation fits into the relationships and traditions that have been a part of my life for so long.
It's a balancing act, but one that I believe will ultimately lead to more authentic connections and a deeper sense of self.
What about you?
How do you navigate these waters of personal growth within the context of long-standing relationships and traditions?
I'd love to hear your thoughts and experiences. After all, we're all on this journey together, even if our paths look a little different.
Mykal Harp, CMHC and Metaphysician, is a Certified Master Hypnotic Coach and a devoted student of metaphysics. She is dedicated to applying metaphysical principles to heal and enrich lives. Her passion lies in helping others interpret the significant messages behind both physical and emotional symptoms, guiding them toward genuine healing. Through her intuitive guidance and unique energy-shifting techniques, Mykal empowers clients to discover their inner truth and live authentically. Her work inspires a personal journey of self-discovery, creating rich tapestries of authenticity, freedom, and joy
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